A letter from an Husband after 4 successfull years of marriage

Today is a very special day for me in my life . It was the same 4 years before.
I still remember the bubbly chirpy gal who has a sparklin smile for which the whole college was fida
I Think u still carry that charisma on u'r face .

There were many ups and downs in our life. SOme I fought alone some together and some u alone
what ever happened our relationship blossmed after every hit. Not to mention it all happened for a reason better strange and stupid
yet you been part n parcel of my life and takin care of mine evrything starting from my life towards my pain and towards my happiness
all along ,you were there and cheered me .

What ever lille am today and achieved today is not because I was smart but because of a reason and thats YOU.

Its true , my evry heart beat might not sing a song for you but my life is circled around you and it will always remain the same for ever and ever...

I owe you more than my life and I believe I will try to become a better partner to you than what I am today!!

Think back and I can imagine the jerks u got b'coz of me and hence a salute to you !!!

I am sorry if I have hurt in these 4 years . I wont promise you If I can ever not to hurt you because certain thins are not in my control but I promise " To be part of you in your pain "

We have been friends and foes and husbands and wifes and we played all roles to suit our life . Today people are lukin at us and praisin

felt happy to spend those 4 valuable years with you

I know if it was not you it would not have been anybody else who culd have understood me better.

You are the best and Thai shall always be



ever loving hubby cum cleaner cum friend cum partner cum lover cum kid..........................

Friendship Undefined

For long time I felt strongly thinkin & experienced about it ........

One thing I feel needs to be said is that there are many other relationships that aren’t friendship that are still positive. There are many people I admire who aren’t friends. I work with lots of people who aren’t friends. In fact, I often think it’s a bad idea to work with your friends (more on that another time).

The world isn’t divided into two parts — friends and enemies. I choose to think of friend as a very strong word, representing a very close relationship. I think this may be in part due to what I do, because I need a good solid line separating my public life from my personal. A friend is a personal relationship. I like and admire many people who I don’t consider friends.

One of the hallmarks of a person who is more likely to be a friend-that-was than a friend-for-life, is that person quotes anonymous people who say they were my friend but I betrayed them. That’s such a huge turnoff, that usually wakes me up in an instant. A friend would never even consider saying something like that, because it’s so objectifying, so impersonal, so unfair, so un-friendly. In a court of law you’re entitled to cross-examine.


I learned that a friend is someone I trust to be with me when I am at my weakest and most vulnerable. And they are people who, no matter how painful it is to see, are willing to be with me when I am so helpless and weak. If I would trust my life with you, and vice versa, we are friends. It’s not about whether you are trustworthy, or whether you are friendly, it’s the actual act of trust that is the basis of friendship. If I trust you to be truthful, then you’re a friend. If I find I must be careful how I say things, then it’s something other than friendship.

Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do, it’s not about whether you’re good or not, it’s not a reflection of you, it’s a balanced relationship between people. That doesn’t mean it’s always balanced at every moment. Sometimes you “need a friend” and other times it’s the other way. It’s a trust that’s returned. When I was younger and thought I was in love, a friend said it’s not love unless it’s returned. Friendship and love are not quite the same thing, although there’s a lot of love around friendship. I learned that love isn’t even something about two people, it’s a state of being for one person. You aren’t in love, you are love. You are, whether you acknowledge it or not. The heart that’s pumping blood through your body is an act of love, 24 hours a day

"At the end of the day I go back conquering nothin but to be with my Family and happy ever after . Thats not an happy endin but a beginning of a new life ....." written by Dave winer